Dont go tell her you love her, but try and let her know that feelings ARE there. I know its not easy, and im not going to try and make it seem that way. But you always have to start somewhere. Get the ball rolling a little bit and see how things go. Keep us updated, and good luck!
"When we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall into mutually satisfying weirdness - and call it love."